"If you do not find peace within yourself, you will never find it anywhere else."

- Paula A. Bendry


"SERVICE: 
Service to God and our fellow human beings is the key to A.A. success. Helping other alcoholics who need and want help gives us the tolerance and humility necessary to contented sobriety.
Service combats self-centeredness. It reminds us of our powerlessness over alcohol.
Intelligent, unselfish service is the lifeblood of the A.A. fellowship."

– Ed Webster, 1987 edition of The Little Red Book


"If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were."

~ Kahlil Gibran


"If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured or far away.

- Henry David Thoreau


"Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are."

- John Wooden


"The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reasons for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality."

- Albert Einstein


"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

- Nathaniel Hawthorne


"What really matters is what happens in us, not to us."

- James W. Kennedy


"Let me not pray to be sheltered from dangers, but to be fearless in facing them. Let me not beg for the stilling of my pain, but for the heart to conquer it."

- Alexander Graham Bell


This page has some material that may be helpful on the journey of recovery. Feel free to print and share. Any acknowledgement of source should remain on the handouts.
They're PDFs, so if by chance you don't have an Acrobat PDF Reader, get one here:
Unless otherwise stated, authorship and copyright is "rc-rc.info." If the information is/has been useful to you, please send a note to let me know. I'll work on more items, IF anyone is actually interested. There have been A LOT of downloads--but no feedback. EMAIL
There is more information you can get from other sites we've linked to: official organizations and recovery links. Those items might be copyrighted beyond personal use.
Miscellaneous Handout Sheets
Meeting Rhetoric VS What's in the Big Book of A.A. NEW

"Why We Should Study the Big Book" download full PDF
A 12-page compilation of What is often heard at AA meetings (rhetoric, slogans, cliches) versus what's actually in the Text of Alcoholics Anonymous. The source document was from www.ppgaadallas.org (Primary Purpose Groups in Dallas) It has been expanded and edited.
Slogans and sayings from other fellowships, mental health support groups, and treatments centers have been dropped into AA meetings and has contributed to the watering-down of The AA 12-Step Program of Recovery. AA does not require attendance at meetings, but has many people attending who are required to by OTHER systems. This has drastically declined AA's success rate of alcoholics finding lasting recovery.

Accept Life on Life's Terms OR Live Life on God's Terms?
This is the information from our "Collections 3" page in PDF form. download PDF
The Big Book Recovery Program (thru page 164) is about learning to live on God's terms, not ours. "Accepting life on life's terms" is an opinion from a story, not part of The Program. "Our real purpose is to fit ourselves to be of maximum service to God and the people about us." pg 77. Life doesn't make terms; other people and my EGO make terms. So my choices are: other's terms, my EGO's terms, or GOD's terms? This is a 2-page document.

What is a Dry Drunk or a Sober Drinker?
Do you attend AA meetings, but choose to take the "easier softer way" as a program? After a few years, are you still restless, irritable, and discontented? There is a solution for a contented way of living....
You Might Be a Dry Drunk If... download 2-pg PDF.

STEP Guides / Work Sheets
The 12 Steps ARE in the Big Book
YES, THEY ARE. The BB gives us 'precise, clear-cut directions.' If you've heard that the 12&12 was written because people couldn't find the directions for each step in the BB -- well that doesn't really fit with AA History. Besides, the "Little Red Book" (Ed Webster) was published in 1946, before the 12&12 (1953) was written. The 12&12 was never meant to replace the Big Book for 'how to take the steps;' it broadens and deepens our understanding for subsequent 12 Step work-throughs. Remember, the 12-Steps are 'suggested' as a program of recovery BECAUSE IT MUST BE VOLUNTARY. dowload PDF
So go ahead––Carry the Message! Be a Big Book Thumper. Help save some lives.

Priorities Worksheets for People in 12-Step Recovery

For gaining perspective and balance in life. Beginners often don't know where or how to restart their life, how to sort things out, or know what's important. This set of worksheets can help you or a sponsee to figure out "the next right thing," get an understanding of "first things first" and how to "practice the principles in all our affairs."
SUGGESTED to do these after the Fifth Step--along with 6th and 7th.
The first page is information and directions. The second page is an example page. The third page is a blank worksheet for use by the individual.
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4th-Step and 10th-Step Moral Inventory Checklist

This is a suggested "Liabilities and Assets Checklist for a Moral Inventory." This is the first part of AA's 4th-Step Inventory when we 'take stock' before we do the deeper-cleansing 'grudge list.'
The first page is information and directions. The second page is an example page. The third page is a blank checklist for use by the individual (make as many copies as you need).

This checklist may also help with the 10th-Step's continued personal inventory and 'yardsticks for behavior'.
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Liabilities/Character Defects Definitions
Values/Character Assets Definitions

Three-page list of definitions and synonyms for 'LIABILITIES' words from the Moral Inventory Checklist, above.
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Three-page list of definitions and synonyms for 'ASSETS' words from the Moral Inventory Checklist, above left.

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Quiet Time / 11th-Step Meditation Guide

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This is a suggested "Quiet Time" Guide for Step 11. But this can be used right from the beginning for those interested in full recovery (beyond just sobriety/staying clean).

It starts as a half-hour set-apart time, which eventually will become the full hour quiet time. It is divided into segments. Each person uses a reading or sacred writing of their choosing.

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JOB SEARCH Resources
One Stop Career Resource Guide
Resume Worksheet

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This is a PDF offered from Multnomah County to help people who have a criminal history to find employment. Included is a list of area 'One Stop' Career Offices.
Mult Co. Website link

Here's a 3-page worksheet to inventory your work history and job skills to help you update your resume.

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HANDOUT SHEETS
These are the "How Do You Feel Today?" sheets. I got these in 1989 from someone who'd gotten them from a treatment center. They're copies of copies (have been passed around for awhile) and there was NO copyright on them, so I cleaned them up and made PDFs. An agency or two may have redrawn them and claimed them as there own....? (RCRC 2006)
Click on each to get the full-size PDF.

PART ONE

PART TWO
Character Defects
Crisis Hotline Numbers

Here's a list of suggested personality liabilities and defects of character

This is a list of Portland-area Hotline and Crisis numbers

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INSPIRATIONAL POEMS
I Stand By The Door NEW
"I Stand By The Door" Rev. Samuel Shoemaker – a non-alcoholic founder of A.A. This is formatted for a legal-size sheet of paper. dowload PDF
A Prayer for Children
Our Deepest Fear

by Ina Hughs

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by Marianne Williamson

(used by Nelson Mandella
in a famous speech)
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Risks
I'd Rather See a Sermon

by Janet Rand

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by Edgar Guest

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Tomorrow
You Learn
He'll do it—tomorrow.

A good poem for us procrastinators

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by Veronica Shoffstall

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God Boxes
Desiderata Poem

A poem about Letting Go and Letting God.

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Max Ehrmann originally copyrighted Desiderata in 1927 as 'Go Placidly Amid The Noise And Haste'. The copyright number was 962402, dated 3rd January.

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WEBSITE RESOURCES
Phone Cards

These "calling cards" are 10 per page.
Use an Avery [#5882, #8871
Avery link] business card template sheets–from any office supply store. Print. Separate cards along perforations.

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Write your name, phone, and/or email address for someone seeking help.


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