"There are two kinds of people: those who say to God, "Thy will be done," and those to whom God says, "All right, then, have it your way."

- C. S. Lewis


"It is a painful thing to look at your own trouble and know that you yourself and no one else has made it."

- Sophocles


"All we need for another meeting is a resentment and a pot of coffee."

- Dr Bob Smith


"The unexamined life is not worth living."

- Socrates


"Acceptance is not submission; it is acknowledgment of the facts of a situation, then deciding what you're going to do about it."

- Kathleen C. Theisen


“There are certain things that are fundamental to human fulfillment. The essence of these needs is captured in the phrase 'to live, to love, to learn, to leave a legacy'. The need to live is our physical need for such things as food, clothing, shelter, economical well-being, health. The need to love is our social need to relate to other people, to belong, to love and to be loved. The need to learn is our mental need to develop and to grow. And the need to leave a legacy is our spiritual need to have a sense of meaning, purpose, personal congruence, and contribution”

–Stephen R. Covey


"But for the grace of God, there go I."

- John Bradford"


What you do speaks so loudly, I cannot hear what you say."

- Ralph Waldo
Emerson


Speaker Anonymity | Speaking about AA History
About 12-Step Meetings
The Portland Metro Area has MANY meetings scheduled at all hours. These are the places to hear the message of 12-step recovery for a new way of life; the sharing of experience, strength, and hope.

It is expected that the condition of anonymity be respected: "What you see here, what you hear here; let it stay here." If you learned something about recovery, use it and repeat it in general terms! — just don't repeat who said it or at what meeting.

Meetings are a place to find guidance on how to use & live the steps, a place to reach out to each other, support each other, and practice our 12th Step. Meetings remind us what our problem is, what the solution is, and that 'it still doesn't work out there.'

Check out a few different meetings, listen and watch, get literature (usually available at meetings), get phone numbers, ask for help (traditionally a sponsor) from someone who "walks their talk," buy a textbook, and find a meeting you're comfortable with to be your 'home group' then attend it regularly.

There are no social, religious, economic, racial, ethnic, age, or gender membership restrictions—YOU decide if you're a member. These meetings are fully self-supporting so there are no dues or fees for membership, although members are encouraged to contribute small sums to help cover the expenses of meetings (rent, coffee, literature, coins).

In specific 12-step program meetings, we use THAT organization's official text and materials [This is another good reason to read the books]. We do this out of respect of history and the traditions, and to avoid confusion. Please do not offer information taught at rehabs and treatment centers. The 'group conscious' is read at the beginning of a meeting and is the format for conducting that meeting.

Often one of the first signs of a sober alcoholic's relapse to drinking, is no longer going to meetings on a regular basis. It can also also be a sign that they have stopped using the other tools that are keeping them sober.

Speaker meetings start with the customary readings, then one individual talks of their life: "what it was like, what happened, and what it's like now."

Area Speaker Meetings
SP. MEETING NAME Program WHEN WHERE
O.B.'s AA 1st Saturday of month
7:30 pm
2435 NW Front Ave.
Longshoreman's Hall map
Westside AA 2nd Sat. of month
8:00 pm
2785 SW 209 Ave., Aloha
Reedsville Presp. Church
Celebration Saturday AA Every Saturday
8:00 pm
East County Alano Center
1015 NE Roberts, Gresham map
The Circle AA 4th Saturday of month
7:30 pm
Orenomah Masonic Lodge map
13680 SW Pacific Hwy (99W), Tigard
District 25 AA 2nd Saturday of month
7:00 PM
39300 Dubarko Dr., Sandy map
District 12 AA 4th Saturday of month
8:00 pm
7035 NE Glisan St
12 x 12 Club, Portland
NARA AA 3rd Saturday of month
6:00 pm
1438 SE Division St, Portland
NARA House
AA in The Woods AA 1st Sunday of month
9:00 am
NE 99th and Pacific
Gateway Park and Ride
Old Timers AA last Sunday of month
2:00 pm
7035 NE Glisan St
12 x 12 Club, Portland
Hole in the Wall AA Last Friday of month
5:30 pm
17200 SE Stark St
URS Club
Reflections Al-Anon 2nd Friday of month
7:30 pm
OHSU School of Dentistry
611 SW Campus Drive, SW Ptld.
Canby Saturday Morning Breakfast AA last Sat. of month
9:00 am
Canby Pub & Grill
211 N Grant St map
Wayfarer's AA 2nd Sat. of month
7:30 pm
St. Luke's, 426 E. Fourth Plain Blvd.
Vancouver, WA map
Cabana AA last Thursday of month
8:00 pm
145th & SE Powell
Sellwood Speaker AA 3rd Saturday of month
7:30 pm
1430 SE Nehalem Street, Ptld. map
Estacada Friendship Group AA Last Friday of month
8:00 PM
285 N. Broadway St., Estacada map
SP. MEETING NAME Program WHEN WHERE
Unity NA 2nd Sat. of month
7:00 pm
1100 NE 28th Place
Links to Meeting Schedules
Search page -- AA meetings, Portland Area Intergroup Website

NA meetings, Portland, daily meetings page

Al-Anon, District 17 meetings
Al-Anon, District 10 meetings
Al-Anon, District 15 meetings

Gamblers Anonymous Oregon meeting page
Portland HOTLINE Number: (503) 233-5888

Adult Children meeting search

Marijuana Anonymous — District 11 meetings

CMA — Portland area meetings

Methadone Anonymous: One known in Rose City area at ADR Center in Clackamas

All Addicts Anonymous: link to oregon meetings webpage
Dual Diagnosis Anonymous of Oregon meeting page
About Speakers, Etc.
Anonymity — by Tom P., Jr.
Speaker-type meetings serve a vital function in AA. When a sober AA member stands up before a group and recaps his drinking history, he forms a healing bond of identity between himself and his alcoholic listeners.

But there is a temptation for speakers — especially gifted ones — to overemphasize the drinking history solely for its entertainment value and to underemphasize the Four Absolutes and the Twelve Steps, the principles which are the All Addicts Anonymous way of life. By the same token, there is a temptation for members of the “audience” to become so fascinated by the speeches of others that they neglect discussion of their own life difficulties and how the recovery principles might help in overcoming them.

Particularly susceptible to these abuses are AA conventions, those super-speaker meetings which have become so popular in the movement in the past fifty years. The AA conventions doubtless have a valid role as affirmers of AA strength and solidarity. But AA convention speakers whose stock-in-trade is exciting or amusing “war stories” rather than helpful talk about the recovery principles can hardly avoid having their personalities steal the limelight from the principles, to their own detriment and that of all their listeners. When this happens the spirit of anonymity is violated and the whole fellowship suffers.
link to '3 Ways to be Anonymous' article at AAA

Put A.A. 12 Step Speakers, Sponsors, and Counselors To Work! — by Dick B
"...There are hundreds and hundreds of women and men in the recovery movement who have never studied A.A.’s basic text or learned how to take people through the Twelve Steps in accordance with the instructions. There are far more who haven’t a clue about A.A.’s history and roots, and haven’t any idea where the recovery program got its ideas. And many of these have never opened an A.A. history book, been to an A.A. history conference, or even cared to learn our history. Why? Generally speaking, it’s because they’ve had no resources to work with or with which they cared to work. Sometimes because they just don’t care. . ."
Read Dick B's letter on his site

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